what qualifies someone as a problem gambler?

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Re: what qualifies someone as a problem gambler?

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Tedlark wrote:
Thu Feb 28, 2019 7:27 pm
For some reason FloridaPhil rolls off the tongue a bit easier than FloridaSantiago.
Here's the short story.

Fishing was a big part of my life. Fishing is everywhere in Florida. Even the tiny pond down the street holds good bass. I started fishing my neighborhood lakes when I was 12. I built my first boat myself when I was 16. It was 8 feet long by 4 feet wide. My future wife worked the sponge.

By 18 I was fishing bass tournaments for money. I won my first professional bass tournament when I was 22. In Miami the Bahamas are only 50 miles away. The Gulf stream is less than a mile offshore. I had friends who would take me offshore fishing. Florida has some of the best Tarpon and Sailfish fishing in the US. Eventually I began fishing offshore tournaments.

One of my wife's customers at the bank where she worked was a world renowned professional sport fisherman. He and his wife were sponsored by Penn Reels. We became good friends. They traveled all over the world chasing Marlin. As my computer services business grew and prospered, we traveled often fishing as a team. We fished all over Canada, Central and South America, Australia and even spent a month in Papua New Guinea.

I retired from the computer business in 1996 and moved to Central Florida. I returned to bass fishing full time. When I applied for my Captain's License, I had logged over 3,500 hours at the helm of a boat. Between tournaments, I guided, wrote about fishing and supported my sponsors. At one time I was a weekly columnist for local newspapers and magazines. I have probably owned at least 20 boats from the eight foot boat I built when I was 16 to a 40 foot sport fisherman I owned for 10 years.

To cut this story short, I developed spinal stenosis in my back and arthritis in my arms 10 years ago and I can't fishing for more than 3-4 hours. My son who owns the business I started in 1969, takes me fishing with him on occasion. I see parallels in fishing and video poker all the time.

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Like fishing, video poker is full of liars, BS artists and opportunists. That new lure you see advertised on TV, the one where the fish jump in the boat to bite, isn't new and the fish won't commit suicide when you throw it. Anyone can tell the story about the one that got away. It time, that fish story becomes a world record. Not just anyone can turn that story into money.

Doing anything on a professional level is hard work. So hard in fact, it becomes tedious in time. There were times when I wondered if it was worth it. Try fishing the Venezuelan bank in 14 foot seas and see how you like it. I am sure BD has felt that way from time to time.

Not everyone has what it takes to be a world class fisherman, athlete or a world recognized video poker player. There is something inside these people that you can't teach. A Tom Brady has something that no other football quarterback has and never will have. You can't train winning on that level into a person. That something is talent, drive, determination and discipline.

I have a lot of respect for champions of any sport or endeavor. I am especially humbled by people who create and operate successful small businesses. The world is against their success and they succeed despite this handicap. I started out with nothing. No one ever told me I couldn't do anything. I didn't succeed at everything I tried to do. This didn't keep me from trying.

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Here's a photo that hangs on the wall in my office. This is the record Pacific sailfish I caught in Guatemala 30 years ago. The weight was calculated from length and girth measurements. I caught this fish on 8 pound test mono with the Garcia 6500C bass fishing reel I am holding in the photo. This fish was released.
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Fishing addiction? Just kidding. I have friends who will take me out on their boats a few times each summer, but I could never own one. Don't fish when we go out, usually just go to a nice waterfront restaurant for dinner.

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Carcounter wrote:
Fri Mar 01, 2019 7:15 am
Fishing addiction? Just kidding.
I owe a lot to my addictions. My addiction to fast cars is what got me my first job with the Burroughs Corporation in 1966. That turned into a business that is still thriving today. My addiction to fishing has taken me to places and allowed me to see things few people have seen or done. A 600 pound blue marlin six feet from you is a little frightening and humbling at the same time. A 12 pound bass at the end of the line is about a cool as it gets for me. I have one of those on my wall as well.

Together on my office wall with all those other memories are the three W2Gs for the $4,000 royals I received in one day back in 2008. My life is full of memories. Not all of them were profitable long term. All of them were great.

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Post by Carcounter »

I enjoy VP, golf, the NFL, MLB and all kinds of general outdoor activities, but can't say I'm addicted to any of those. Maybe Woodford Reserve Bourbon and Ketel One vodka though.

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Carcounter wrote:
Fri Mar 01, 2019 8:37 am
I enjoy VP, golf, the NFL, MLB and all kinds of general outdoor activities, but can't say I'm addicted to any of those. Maybe Woodford Reserve Bourbon and Ketel One vodka though.
I'm not sure if I'm addicted or not. Could I stop fishing? I have, but it wasn't by choice.

Could I stop loving fast cars? I could sell my cars but I would still enjoy talking about them.

Could I stop playing video poker? Definitely. For me video poker is a leisure time activity, something to do on a day when I don't have anything better to do. Both my wife and I have cut down on our casino trips. Not for financial reasons, because there is not much left for us to experience that we haven't seen before.

The only thing I am sure I am addicted to is my wife. She has been with me since she was 15 years old and as shared every good and bad thing that has ever happen. Without her, I would be nothing.

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Post by FAA »

That's the key. Once you've seen it all, why return often or ever? I'd like to bow out after the expected hand pay rush. Hanging on to the dream. Elway and Jordan bowed out in style.

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I'm definitely not as motivated as I once was. What's to gain? I'm not going to win anything lasting unless I feed the machines big money. Even if I win big, will I then quit and walk away a winner? I doubt it. The casino will find a way to keep me coming back.

Right now, the casino is like going to a movie. Sometimes the movie is good and sometimes it stinks. It costs me the same either way.

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FloridaPhil wrote:
Fri Mar 01, 2019 11:54 am
I'm definitely not as motivated as I once was. What's to gain? I'm not going to win anything lasting unless I feed the machines big money. Even if I win big, will I then quit and walk away a winner? I doubt it. The casino will find a way to keep me coming back.

Right now, the casino is like going to a movie. Sometimes the movie is good and sometimes it stinks. It costs me the same either way.
Yeah but you can walk out of a casino just as easily as you can walk out halfway through a bad movie. You don't have to sit through the entire movie.

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